For so long I used to feel like I couldn't breathe. I felt like I was incapable of being normal. When things went wrong, I always felt like I was the issue. Being caught up in my past life was destroying everything about me and everything I had. It took someone important to me, almost walking away forever to wake me up from my own hell. Before I used to apologize for my actions and pretend that I was fixing it, when in reality I wasn't. I was in denial of what my issues really were. When I woke up, I confessed to myself that I really did have problems I needed to fix, not just for a short amount of time, but permanently. It wasn't easy. I had to teach myself how to live in the present, how to see when problems exist, talk about them and try to fix them instead of bottling them up until every built up emotion I had exploded and caused some big catastrophe that was almost non-repairable. For once I feel normal again. I feel like weight has been lifted off of my shoulders. Sure every now and then I have to remind myself not to go back to my old ways of dealing with issues. I am happy. The word "Happy" is something you would have never heard me say a few months ago. For years I was unhappy with everything and always such a negative person. Things have changed for the better. I was fortunate enough to have some who stood by my side, and still does, while I grew into being a new and positive person. If that isn't love, than I don't know what is. I am truly lucky and thankful to have this person in my life. I am also thankful for this new chance for a new life. I can only hope life keeps moving forward in a positive way from here on out.
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